Monday, September 12, 2011

Was Freud on to something?



Wikipedia: Freud theorized that children who experience conflicts during potty training (basically learning to hold it) may develop "anal" personality traits, namely those associated with a child's efforts at excretory control: orderliness, stubbornness, a compulsion for control.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Look whooo's a domestic goddess?

Let me be clear: I had no plan for a gift for my goddaughter's birthday. Just six hours before Izzie's first birthday, I still had to make macaroni salad, stop by the farmers' market for her vegan cupcake and come up with the world's best present- all while entertaining a certain toddler and his grandmother.

Of two things, I was sure: this chic had more toys (via her brother) than a kid could ask for, and her mother was obsessed with owls (thanks to an owl decal I bought on Etsy for the baby nursery).


With expert seamstress grandmother in tow, I headed for the place that could satisfy my last minute needs either through cheap novelty products from China or a last minute do-it-yourself craft project: Jo-Anne's. After spotting the discounted plush fabric decked with owls, the four-hour ordeal officially began. Like many things I do, it was impulsive yet ambitious.





How hard could it really be to sew binding around one piece of rectangular fabric? Huberis!

Three hours of pinning and 30 minutes of sewing later...I'm pretty sure I'll never try to make one of these again. Sorry Cruz.


Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Oh the joyful things that summer brings

August has come and gone. Trips to Denver, the Valley, then Dallas all but consumed our time and energy over the past few weeks. The upside: a short respite from the 110 degree heat. The downside: all the overstimulation has projected Cruz right into everyone's favorite toddler milestone. The answer to every question or statement right now is "NO!"


Are you ready to take a bath? "NO!"



Time to put our toys away. "Not yet, Mommy, not yet."



Visiting friends couldn't even walk in through our front door without a "NO!" half-way out of his mouth.



For the past two days the question, "Do you need to go peepee on the potty?" has been met with a pleading, "No, please, no!" as he sits down to try (perfect photo op, no?). Potty training pergatory has begun! Frustrated after two poop incidents (neither of them in the potty, one on my foot), I yelled, "Why, Cruz?!" Of course, I already knew the answer to that question. "NO!!!"




Saturday, August 6, 2011

My idea of a perfect Saturday

After trip to the 'hood Farmers' Market and a few accidental cracked eggs from Urban Patchwork, Cruz and I made some fresh buttermilk and bluberry tart, with the help of a special friend.

I'm not sure what brought more pleasure: the delicious and refreshing fruit tart or the look of joy on Cruz' face as he made his own little pie and ate it!














































Thursday, August 4, 2011

Banana Oatmeal Carrot Muffins



I once had a ton of carrots and overripe bananas. What could I make with this? Thanks to google, it seems there is a recipe out there for anything. I added "oatmeal" in the search terms and voila!

I usually double everything but the sugar to make one huge batch. Cruz BEGS for these in the morning.

Banana Oatmeal Carrot Muffins (from Daily Adventures in Cooking)
(makes 12)
1 cup flour
1 ¼ cups oats
3 teaspoons baking powder
½ teaspoon salt
¼ teaspoon cinnamon
⅓ cup oil
½ cup sugar
½ cup packed brown sugar
2 eggs
2 bananas mashed
2 carrot, grated
Preheat oven to 400F. Combine flour, oats, baking powder, salt, and cinnamon.
In another bowl mix the oil, both sugars, the eggs, carrots, and bananas.
Combine the dry and the wet and pour into greased muffin tins.
Bake for 20 minutes.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Building Cruz' world, block by block

As I mother, I want to be able to provide the best for Cruz. Does that mean spending $24.95 (GASP!) on these Melissa & Doug cardboard blocks? I mean, these are top of the line learning toys. How adorable are they?! He loves stacking stuff, and come on, who am I to deny him the opportunity to learn and create art [...out of cardboard]???


I grappled internally on this purchase and in the end could not pull the trigger. While I want to give Cruz the world of opportunities, I also don't want to spoil him with materials posessions. I had to ask myself: How do I balance the opportunities we can afford to present to him without the toys I can't afford? The answer: I think WAY too much about stuff.


It turns out he's the one who's taught me about simplicity, enterprise and raw creatvity. A few boxes and some packing tape later....Cruz was on his way to becoming American's next top physicist, engineer or architect.


Super-Granola-Austin-Mom



So our friend Kristy had her twin boys (Wes and Miles, above) a few months ago. I called her super mom for being by herself - no nanny - with two infants all day long, puming, feeding, pumping, changing diapers, etc. and still sane. She called herself "Super-Granola-Austin-Mom" for finally being able to tandem breast feed one day. Then she realized she hadn't bathed them in two days, one had oily hair and the other smelled like poop. I told her that basically solidifed her status as the super-granola-mom.

BTW, the Garden-themed shower we had was amazing! Here is a photo recap:














How do you like them peaches!?



Despite the record high temps, severe drought, a leaky rainbarrel that has prevented me from watering anything and our lackluster efforts to keep the garden alive, our peach tree managed to fruit these tiny, delicious little peaches, or peachettes, as I see it.

Cruz will be really excited about this when he wakes up tomorrow.

Summer Reading List

How is it that as the days got longer this summer, I had less time to do the things I wanted to do, like keep up with this blog! (I literally just "shushed" Dax so I could concentrate on writing a recap from the past few months.)

In a nutshell, this summer has been all about transitions for Cruz, from starting his new journey at The Joyful Garden, to mastering the art of survival through five grueling weeks of swim lessons. I am both amazed and guilt-ridden (since I make these decisions for him) at his ability to adapt and grow in these situations. Every day I feel like we're going through a different science experiment: Cruz is the subject as I toss variables his way. We always eagerly await to see what will happen next. He can now swim and float to save his life and feed Lizzie and let her go potty with little help from his Momma.

Most notably, Cruz has gone through an amazing "language explosion," as he began to express himself verbally just weeks after joining his friends at school. Beyond mimickry, he continues to apply his new language to new contexts daily, always looking for a way to relate to whatever it is that he's doing: "Momma's water" or "Cruz's turn" to take a sip.

With this, his love of books continues to grow and as he finishes our sentences when we read: "I love you like plants love....GROWING!" His summer reading list is long and varied, from books on buses, trucks and diggers to classic bedtime stories like Goodnight Gorilla and Goodnight Moon. Here he is with a book from his Aunt Pam101:



Let's hope this is a habit he keeps for good, unlike his Momma who only likes to read on vacation!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

A TeePee for the Weekend Warrior

This weekend's garden project is going to be to construct a "living" teepee for Cruz and his friends. I have some 15-foot bamboo stalks (courtesy of a neighbor) that I need to cut and tie to make the frame and Dax is going to be sawing a tree trunk (courtesy of a random Craigslist post) so we can have some nice stumps for the kids to sit on around while singing Kumbaya.

We have to till up some dirt and prep the soil to plant the bean stalks, then lay down some mulch, and hopefully in a few weeks we'll have one of these!



Thanks to the Doug Welsh's Texas Almanac for the idea to help integrate children's activities into our family garden.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Tomatoes are in!

After a long weekend and grandma's, Cruz came home to check on his garden and found 3 ripe grape tomatoes ready for the taking. After we picked them off the vine, it was so awesome to see his excitement as he ran around the yard, clutching to his new treasures. We finally got him to put them into an old plastic plant pot so he wouldn't squeeze them to death. He would not let go!!!

After another 10 minutes of running around with the tomatoes in the pot, we took him inside and he washed and dried them himself. When we told him he could eat them, he ran to his little toddler table and waited patiently as we sliced the tiny tomatoes. I was so surprised and delighted to see that he ate every last morsel. He normally hates the texture and taste of tomatoes (store bought) but I think he really enjoyed these.

I wish I had taken photos - it is truly too cute for words to describe.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

I want a farm!

No update yet on our urban farm, much to my chagrin. Trying to be patient, as it has only been a week since I made my grand announcement to feed the entire neighborhood. My eagerness to get started was fueled this past weekend. My parents, who are big foodies with green thumbs (and money to spend), arranged for an informal tour of a family farm in Taylor, TX (just 45 minutes away from Austin). The farm sparked my dad's interest in part to its stock of organic meats for sale.

I have to admit, before we arrived at Fresh Pastures Farm, I hadn't done any research on where we were going or what we were visiting. In fact, we almost got lost going there because my dad's Tom Tom was still set for New Orleans (where my brother got married a few weeks ago). So naturally, I pictured we would be visiting Old McDonald's farm with a big red barn, a petting zoo and a patch of bluebonnets in which we could take the obligatory family photo. I even asked Dax to wear a white shirt to match Cruz in his overalls and white shirt.

When we pulled up, I was actually quite embarrassed at first to see a humble residential dwelling, with a small parking space for a few animal trailers, and, from what I could see, a gate that led to a wide, empty field. Where were the animals? Where was the barn? Where were the bluebonnets?? I was not yet ready to admit that I drove nearly an hour to tour someone's backyard. You don't live on a farm just because your street address includes the name "County Road" followed by a few random numbers!!!!

Since my dad made the arrangements, we made him knock on the door. A few minutes later, we were greeted by a pretty little woman with long hair in a pony tail and a golden tan. She stood about 5'1, but had a firm handshake and a kind smile.
I was both surprised and delighted -- no enamored -- with what I saw: from the dogs she rescued to protect the cooking and laying chickens in their portable chicken coops, to the picturesque ducks that swam in the water tank luring Cruz to swim, to Billy the goat and his three female friends, to the pigs who responded by their name at the back end of the farm before making mud pies, and the cows that grazed peacefully around the 30-acre pasture. This woman was amazing. She started her farm after finding out the origins of most food in your local grocery store. For not even a year, she has created a new lifestyle for her and her family, dedicated to sustainable and humane agriculture.

She does this through Mixed Intensive Grazing (MIG): a livestock farming method characterized by rotation of stock among multiple paddocks to allow the forage crop and the soil to rest. AKA - how farming was supposed to be before consumption demanded the overfarming methods major companies use today. It is a cycle of eating and pooping - in short. Cows graze first, starting with tall grass. Goats come in next, eating what the cows don't. The flies that plant their larva in the poop become food for the chickens for the next rotation. Their poop provides nitrates back into the soil. The rabbits, in a separate pen, also provided much-needed compost to her organic vegetable garden. It was brilliant!

I also couldn't get over the fact that the rescued Great Pyranese dogs were put to work and instinctively and with no training protected the animals from coyotes, owls, buzzards and other predators. Their old pet Basset Hound has begrudgingly become the young chickens' protector. Even the cats who followed us around had a purpose! Cruz also had a blast looking at all the animals he previously only saw in books. Wow, a cow really DOES say moo! The tour conveniently ended in their processing building where my parents spent a pretty penny on some good, organic and cleanly processed meat.


I wanted so badly to either be a part of that farm or start my own. Except I don't even really eat that much meat. A vegetarian for 10 years, Brie was now eating meat nearly every day. Nothing goes to waste on her farm. Chicken carcasses make for delicious stock and ham hocks are a nice treat for the loyal dogs. If you are ever in need of any real meat, you can visit their website and pre-order, but hurry as they sell out fast. (Also, the pork ribs tend to disappear and magically reappear in her husband's grill.)

I felt so energetic and inspired when I left the farm. I'm ready to start my garden, but without a plan or general know-how, I'm stuck. Alas, I don't have the time or energy right now to research it on my own. So, I'll try to wait patiently until I hear from Urban Patchwork. Until then, I'll have to visualize my community garden and stick with Cruz' animal see and say!

Happy Campers

Just ordered some new shoes for Cruz as he has pretty much grown out of his L'Amour sneakers. I looked at several locally owned kid stores, plus Target and most of them sold out of shoes his size. So I decided to take a cue from my friend who almost exclusively shops online on Amazon.com. Several clicks later and a few unsuccessful attempts to find anything there, I did some random google searches and found these:



The shoes are made with eco-friendly materials (free of Lead, Antimony, Arsenic, Barium, Cadmium, Mercury, Selenium and harmful Amines) and include flexible soles made of recycled rubber.

I'm very happy with my choice and look forward getting them. These "Happy Campers" are "the favorite footwear of little nature-lovers everywhere!" according to Pedoodles. If they say it, it must be true. Some Pedoodles for our Stinker Doodle (I really do call him that). Poor Cruz has been wearing socks with his sandals for days now, making his feet nice and ripe by 5 o'clock. Poochies!

Friday, April 1, 2011

The sun came out!

It's been chilly the past few days but finally, we have 80-degree weather again :). Soon, it will be too hot to go outside and we'll be eaten by mosquitos, aka the state bird of Texas.

Speaking of birds, Cruz and I put up a new feeder today, though the birds are still trying to feed off the old one that my super-tall babysitter ghetto-rigged after it broke.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

The Joyful Garden: Work Day Wonder

Last weekend was a community workday for Cruz' new school, Joyful Garden (he starts in June). Check out the pics!

The Joyful Garden: Work Day Wonder: "Another work day has come and gone, leaving me in awe of what a group of dedicated and determined adults and kids can accomplish together wh..."

Songs of Spring

We started Music Together class this week at Heartsong, and Cruz - as always - is enjoying every minute.

When we got home from class, we were reading some books and happened upon some of his old music books from past sessions. I sang to him as we looked at the pictures and he immediately recognized instruments in the book that he had at home.



Speaking of songs, a little cardinal was outside my "office" window today tweeting and enjoying the seeds I left out. The feeder is supposed to be up in the tree but it fell and broke...

Spring Showers Bring Baby Greens

For my friends' baby(s) shower, I planted some pea seeds to give away to guests. I started a few weeks ago with some home-made newspaper pots. (Thanks Crestview neighbors for the recycled newspaper.)






They are sprouting nicely!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

They grow like weeds

Cruz is officially running around the house. The other day, he even said "taco." I know he makes his Daddy proud.

We had him help in the kitchen this weekend with a weekend staple: breakfast tacos.

Two Peas in a Pod



When our friend texted us last year that she was expecting twins, Dax and I both (and separately) had the same reaction that may or may not have included an F-bomb. Yes, we are VERY happy for her. Just surprised! (Not to mention she has identical twin brothers, which happens to not be a genetic trait.)

Fast forward to 2011 and we are planning the baby(s) shower. Lucky for us, the couple's last name lends itself to some creative ideas. While brainstorming invites, I came up with:

1. Join us for a shower to help welcome the Baby Greens

2. The Green Family is in Bloom… Join us for a shower to help Kristy and David welcome their newest sprouts (Sort of took this from a Google Search)

3. KEEP AUSTIN GREEN - Join us for a shower to help Kristy and David welcome their newest sprouts

4. Spring showers bring Baby Greens! Let’s honor Kristy, David and their newest sprouts. (The winner)

Sewing the Seeds of Love in Crestview


I have decided to take part in community gardening through the help of Crestview-based Urban Patchwork.

My vision for this garden is something that we can work on together with our families, teaching our kids how to appreciate the outdoors and the fruits of our labor. When my family gardens together, we don't consider this "work" because we enjoy it, so I'm hoping to plan a community garden around that mentality. Kid activities organically sprout (pun intended) from gardening - whether it is planting seeds, to pulling weeds, to painting signs that designate our fruits and veggies, feeding chickens and pulling eggs. Cruz is already very involved with our small garden at home and I wanted to take it to another level and be a part of something bigger. Instead of limiting the community to my immediate neighbors, I wanted to share the love with my dear friends and already have buy-in from two of our Los Horns families (thanks Jen and Ruth).

Paige, the founder of Urban Patchwork, is set to design a kid-friendly space in my backyard jungle, complete with herbs, veggies/fruit garden, a chicken run and even a space for bocce :). We talked about the possibilities of melding together play dates with gardening work days to get everyone involved. I think this is a first for Urban Patchwork -- I am so excited about this opportunity.

I hope to have an update in a few weeks with our initial design plans. Stay tuned!